Can I still masturbate?
Day 0
by Gabe
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This is a weird question but I only see my girlfriend on the weekends right now with her being in school at night and me working full time and the thing I’m worried about is that with semen retention all week I won’t last long during sex and my girlfriend will start to get upset about this. Can I masturbate without porn, or is that defeating the whole purpose? Or does anyone have tips on lasting longer after waiting a long time?
Porn will kill how long you last and your attraction to sex and is mostly like the root cause of you cumming quickly during sex there is some truth to not nutting for awhile and coming quicker but if you guys care deeply for each other you can explain that part of male biology to her respectfully and just wait 30 minutes and try again plus in my experience girls like big loads just be open and honest one of the biggest things that’s helped me with that is women generally don’t view sex how men do it very competition based for men but it’s not about that it’s a trust and commitment thing there are also many other ways you can last longer without turing to pornography as well ask her to stop offer for-play before and in the middle ask her to slow down for a second to kiss it’s a marathon not a race to pleasure communication is key and so is honesty let her in let her know but this is your journey and if she can’t handle it though very sad is still a healthy step and if she’s willing to help you through you’ll have another support system to help you through this time stay strong stay humble we got this