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I love her

Day 0
by Adrian
21632 upvotes

I have a beautiful girlfriend of 2 years that has no idea that I’m addicted and it’s the most shameful and embarrassing feeling ever. I have full intentions of marrying this women and having a life with her. I can’t shake porn is the problem, gone months without it even almost a year and somehow it just keeps coming back like this infection. The last 5 months I have fapped atleast once a week. I cry almost every time because I know it’s wrong but I can’t stop, I downloaded this app today to help, iv never paid for anything like this in the past and felt like it was the only option was to invest in my self. Here marks the start of a new man, and a new beginning. Cheers to everyone that reads this I love you boys and hope you all fine peace and prosperity within this journey.

Comments (8)
Kyle84d ago

I think a big issue that we all have, is we have no stake in the game. I feel like dropping some cash gives me more incentive to keep it up. If I had to pay a crisp fiver every time I cursed, I’d probably stop pretty fast.

Hayden105d ago

^ instead, get some solid men and make sure she knows who they are and they make you do the work. Journaling, praying, removing temptation, showing up.

Hayden105d ago

I would also encourage you to tell her, but more of a disclosure event. Don’t make her your accountability partner or tell her every time you slip.

Bennett 138d ago

You need to tell her if you haven’t already, she needs to know but the weight of her reaction will help you stop

Jakob145d ago

I’m in the same boat as you here. Do it for her. Keep reminding yourself of why you started this fight to begin with. God loves you, and through him you will be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.

Adrian145d ago

I’m the original poster and I really wanna say that this is getting a lot more publicity than expected. I would love for you guys to share similar topics in the comments. Seeing people that actually care makes me so beyond motivated to quit this addiction.

Jonathan Larios145d ago

That’s amazing to hear brother. I’m currently in a similar boat, It’s definitely a huge struggle to get over. The Bible reminds us though that the righteous man may fall seven times, but he gets back up again. Giving Jesus a chance if you haven’t already will definitely change your life, I can tell you from experience! Another thing I have done is allow an accountability partner to setup a screen time passcode. So only they can turn off content restrictions, that will remove the option of being able to access the websites on your phone. I’m praying for you man, it’s definitely an everyday battle, but the end result will be so worth it!

Tyler145d ago

Thank you brother. Likewise. I’m glad you’re making a change

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