Did you guys feel easily agitated?

I’m only 21 and am not married so by no means am I a professional with marriage advice. But I do get into fights with my family over the dumbest things. That being said what’s helped stopped getting into fights is lowering my pride. My dad was a prideful man never admitting he was in the wrong even tho he was eventually leading to a bad relationship with me and my family. I was on the same path he was until I realized I wasn’t realized my pride isn’t more important than my family. When dealing with people we care about we have to put our pride aside and focus on them specifically. If your wife is starting a fight don’t let your pride say oh she offended me so now I have to defend myself instead ask her whys she’s so mad in a calm matter. Try to get on her level so you can understand her more or figure out why she’s so upset at the moment. Maybe you start a fight and you know you started it then put your pride aside and apologize to your wife letting her know hey I was in the wrong. I’m not calling you a prideful person by any means and again I’m not a professional with marriage but I though I’d share with you my experience with the fights I have with people who are dear to me.