Question

The sex instinct is there for something good… and believe it or not, that’s why it’s perfectly sustainable to avoid misusing it. More sustainable than training it to demand satisfaction from slop, either slop produced by others or slop that we imagine within ourselves.

I believe it is. Masturbation is not a need. It might feel like it is because of how strong the desire might be but you can learn to live without it

That’s a tough one, I think the goal is to find a partner, who, in a healthy way have intimacy with. It’s just controlling your urges. With porn you’re relying on pixels and fake scenarios. Just masterbating alone, you’re relying on fantasy’s in your head that put you in fake scenarios just like the videos.