Need Support
Just started dating a great Christian girl!! She is amazing! But I still can’t stop watching porn. I thought it would be easier to stop if I started dating! Advice?
Just started dating a great Christian girl!! She is amazing! But I still can’t stop watching porn. I thought it would be easier to stop if I started dating! Advice?
You got this bro!! Be honest with her about where your at! It can be scary but relationships are about working together. Coming together to pray or worship are ESSENTIAL in spiritual warfare and having a girlfriend in the faith is a HUGE win!! congrats my brotha:)
If God can’t trust you with your hands why would he trust you with one of his daughters? Also you should respect her enough to avoid premarital sex and committing adultery through porn.
Be honest with her.
On YouTube there is a 9 video series on quitting porn by John Bevere. It is very helpful.
Yeah man, have some real fun with her
Dude that in itself should be well enough of a reason to stop. Not many people here are as lucky as you are. Really refrain from lust and focus on love.
Dont listen to the people trying to demonize you remember the true demons are what you are fighting here you arent fighting yourself you got this man every time you think of anything porn related think of how it would feel to lose her and your future with her relationships can not flourish with the lustful demons forcing their way into your head try using the website blockers delete any apps that enable triggers if possible and try resetting your feeds on everything where it might be sexual you want to avoid triggers at all costs remember why you are trying to stop in the first place and realize just how badly porn can and will kill your relationship and leave you without a partner she is there to help you just as much as you are there to help her work as a team against the problems in your relationship and i promise you the urges will disappear its all about determination and how had you want to be free and how bad you want to have a future with her. God bless brother i believe you can overcome this, i believe in you!