I really like this girl, but I don’t know how to talk to her thanks to porn, Idk it seems that it really fucked up my mind somehow. I really want to talk to her and not just be thinking about how she looks I want to know the real her.
Before you talk to her, do a couple breathing exercises, Then try your boost to look her deeply into her eyes and do not look away. And then the classic - be yourself, pretend she’s just your buddy
Is it lust?
Hey bro I hear your pain man but when you think about talking to her , what’s your initial thought
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Is this a girl you know from somewhere? Like a common interest? Or someone you met via an app? If you know her via a common intrest you might want to start with that. Or just saying hi and asking her what is happening in her life, what she is up to. Showing genuine interest does wonders. Maybe try to think of it this way: "If someone else sent this message to me, would I be happy?" and don't try to overthink it! If people mistake your genuine happyness and interest for something bad, it is on them! Just don't focus on her body when talking to/about her. Mentioning clothing style, eye colour or hairstyle could work. Maybe tattoos? Things that are unique to her!