That’s why I have to keep this streak strong. It’s the worst feeling in the world when I finally get intimate and my tools don’t work. I want her and want to feel but my body and brain are all desensitized. Please keep it up fellas. I pray for this biological reset.
Have partial understanding with where you’re at. I always managed an erection but not once nutted in bed with my last girlfriend of 8 months. There’s pro’s on cons to fighting this with and without a partners support. On one hand is the pressure of not letting them down, which I’m sure it can be super motivating, the other is the fear that you will and the daily insecurities that matches that. Ultimately I hope she’s supportive bro, good luck. It’s only been five days give it some more time.
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It’s not only about desensitization. A lot is pure mentality and conscious and subconscious pressure. Reading your messages makes me feel like there is supposed to be a fixed process, like once there is the moment, x y and z has to happen. Like you mention a tool has to work. If you ask me, I t’s not like fixing somethingthst is broken, just take the hammer and nail it, or use the screwdriver and that screw will … Yet how about considering it a simple process where anything can but nothing must happen. How about enjoying like a good football, soccer or tennis match, where there is development, ups and downs over time, rather than just watching the decisive match point or the final goal that defines a win or loss… just asking.
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Thanks guys. I’ll keep this up. I couldn’t have gotten even 5 days in without this network.