I’m afraid of what comes after
This thought keeps popping in my head. I am attracted to different body types and personalities. And I learned a long time ago that a woman could be 10/10 in her body but her character could be a 1/10 and it really makes her ugly. But I have this concern: I want to live a healthy and active lifestyle. Like I enjoy hiking and swimming and the outdoors as much as I do video games. I’m not saying a woman has to be a goddess by any stretch of the imagination. But I’m afraid that after breaking free from porn, that I’ll suddenly be attracted to massive women who are, and I say this only to get your head to what I’m thinking here, one cheeseburger away from a heart attack. Can anyone speak to this? Does getting away from porn change what your physically attracted too that much? Or should I not be worried?
When your mind is healthy, your attractions will be healthy. Before I was consumed by and with porn I didn’t look at body types at all, really. Sure, I noticed a nice shape on a woman but is wasn’t the driving force behind my attraction. Sexy isn’t just skin deep - it goes to the soul. Porn prevents our souls from being fulfilled. Look forward to you porn-free attractions with joyful anticipation!