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Conflicted emotions

Day 4
by Anonymous
60 upvotes

Last night I got head after being on this 4 day streak of no porn or masturbating. It felt good in the moment but for some reason all I’ve been able to think about since is that it was pretty much another meaningless nut, just with someone else. Has anyone else experienced this? My goal isn’t semen retention but it’s starting to feel like that’s what it needs to be for some time.

Comments (3)
Jude57d ago

If this woman wasn’t a woman whom you had a legitimate emotional connection with and was in some way invested in, then it brings about similar feelings that porn does. You’re both using each other for your bodies, or at the very least you’re using hers, and there’s no significant meaning in the interaction.

Gavin57d ago

Porn is unhealthy for your brain, sex is healthy for your brain. That’s the key difference. Ejaculating without porn can really help you on your journey on leaving porn behind, as sexual interactions actually effect your brain in a much different (and healthier) way than porn. Maybe stick to trying to find a partner and have sex with them in a healthy way. Don’t feel guilty about something that almost everyone on earth enjoys and participates in.

Alistair57d ago

I think the problem most encounter such as myself isn’t just porn, it’s sex of any kind. Just a bikini pic can set you off. So you need to fix a fundamental issue, which takes time

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