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Steps to quitting porn Step 1: Hate lust and the degradation of women Step 2: see step 1 That’s it! Deleting apps, putting your phone away, etc are all good things to do to fight temptation but don’t solve the problem. If a tree is about to fall on your house, do you turn away from it or cut it down? Porn is a symptom of the disease of lust. Why are honest people honest? Because they value honesty and detest lying. Why do hard workers work hard? Because they value discipline and hate laziness. Why would you be able to quit porn? Because you change your ways and develop the principle of purity. For me, I realized lust wouldn’t allow me to honestly have the relationship I needed to give an example to my future children. Maybe the reason for change is different for others, but the bottom line is that reason showed me why lust and porn are horrible and it changed my mind from viewing porn as pleasure to viewing porn as pain. I’ve seen pictures and videos displayed on tv since quitting and it makes me sick. It isn’t hard to quit, it’s hard to hate it. Hate it and quitting is easy.
Charlie, think about what it does to you and others around you. Porn takes away your energy, it disrespects your own body, it disrespects any woman you are in a romantic relationship with, it disrespects your mother and father, it affects the ability to have healthy friendships with the opposite sex, it affects your mind and causes depraved thoughts once regular porn is no longer satisfying, it objectifies women… the list goes on… hate those things and you will hate lust and if you hate lust you will hate porn… you just have to see and realize what it really is