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Not feeling anything during sex

Day 9
by Christian
462 upvotes

Hey yall, im 23 and i’ve been addicted to porn and masturbating for the better part of 15 years. I have abstained from physical sex through out several of my relationships but I was convinced by my current girlfriend to lose my virginity. The thing is, I don’t really feel anything. Not from oral or traditional sex. I know its not that shes doing a bad job or anything because she literally does it the same way they do it in porn. Its gotten to the point where she isn’t really interested in having relations any more because it takes so long for me to finish. Not an exaggeration, I looked at the clock and 47 minutes had gone by and I felt no where near close to finishing. I felt bad for her because her jaw cramped up and we had to go to the ER after she was doing oral for over an hour and nothing. If yall have any idea what the problem could be please do let me know. I think it’s important to emphasize that I do remain errect for the duration

Comments (3)
Chris220d ago

Just checked: it’s in the “learn” section and called “NoFap benefits”

Chris220d ago

I‘d recommend you to watch some of the videos here in the app - I don’t remember which one it was exactly, but I’m still in the first 10 or so. There was one about how watching porn fucks up our brains, eg in porn you can skip and switch scenes or practice, yet in real life, a sexual relation or interaction is more like a process or flow, no skipping the scene or switching the partner in between. After I watched and reflected on this, I understood the part of „rewiring your brain” in this app.

G220d ago

If you’ve ever abstained from porn and fapping for a while, you’ll notice fapping feels so much better. It’s the same idea thing with sex. No fapping = better sex. But in my experience you need to abstain from it for longer for sex to recover. Just keep up your streak, stay strong and you’ll see the affects take place as your body and mind associates that pleasure from your girl rather than porn

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