looking at nudes of your wife

Yeah you’re wife is the no limits card. She’s the only one you really should be seeing naked. And you already are in a deeper love than lust alone, so I think you’re fine. Even missing her and looking at her photos at least draws you closer to her. But be careful you don’t judge her and see her photos alone as not enough.

Me personally that’s not a relapse, it’s your wife. That I assume you’re already having sex with.

I believe, yes. Visual content through phone.