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Caught By The One Person I Never Wanted To Know About This

Day 4
by Tyler
28 upvotes

I forgot that my family had our Apple accounts linked to the same credit card, so when I subscribed to Quittr, I used a family bank account. My mom just found out I’ve been watching porn for the part of the past decade. It’s been hell trying to stop on my own so I wanted to try to get help. But she just made every ounce of pain and regret I’ve felt crash on me all at once. Years of guilt that I’ve carried and have finally begun to feel better about all seemed to crush my in an instant. She said “Don’t you know for bad that stuff is?” Yes, mom. Yes, I do. I’ve felt it rot my soul from the inside and I’m trying to do something about it. But all she could go on about is how bad it is and how much of a disappointment I am to my family, my fiancé, and myself.

Comments (11)
MoonMan81d ago

Ngl this is my worst nightmare tbh I hope you get through this bro 🙏

Jordan81d ago

Don’t let your mom make you feel bad. She’s wrong to attack you. She sins too (obviously has her own issues with emotional regulation) just differently and in a way you probably wouldn’t understand. Be kind, stay confident around her, your fiancée, but set your boundaries and don’t let them be jerks. There are many great men who have slipped into this. Getting out of this crutch in time will confirm your effort and goodness.

Seth81d ago

I think our parents don’t understand how easy it is to fall into it, especially in this day and age. If you haven’t already, I would suggest telling your fiancé. I was in the same place where I would take my confession to the grave, but when I let my fiancé know she was very compassionate. Proud of you for sharing and taking this step to stop the addiction. Don’t let anyone bring you down for such a huge accomplishment.

Broly81d ago

She clearly doesn’t understand the struggle of being chained to this type of addiction, I wouldn’t let anything that was said by her get to you because berating a family member like this is just immature

Alexander81d ago

This isn’t about your mom. This is about you.

Waseem81d ago

Sometimes when people bash on you very hard it is because they have also struggled with the same sin. In times when you get “caught” just own up to it there is nothing else you can do about the past. Keep loving forward being intentional everyday

Fierce_Deity81d ago

That’s super uncool, they should’ve been more supportive

Yisterbunny2181d ago

Aye don’t let ur mom get to u. THIS IS ABOUT YOU GETTING THROUGH THIS STAY STRONG BROTHA!!!

Fierce_Deity81d ago

I did NOT read that last part.

Fierce_Deity81d ago

Oh

Fierce_Deity81d ago

That’s actually really good, I’m thinking of confessing tbh.

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