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Insecure of being a Virgin

Day 9
by Chuka Ashiogwu
77 upvotes

This year I want God to be able to heal my insecurity of being a virgin. For years i’ve been insecure about being a virgin as a Christian. Sometimes I feel like I am missing out when my friends or other people are casually having sex and I am not having sex with multiple women. I know I am suppose to wait till marriage but sometimes that thought haunts me and causes me not to want to wait which is probably what lead me to my Porn addiction. I want to the Lord to heal me of this brokenness. I need some advice if anyone can help.

Comments (5)
Susang220d ago

Mary was a virgin brother

John220d ago

My piece of advice is - well you have a choice but one is going to be more gratifying - the other not so much. You can either go have sex with a chick you don’t care much about or Try to build a relationship and something meaningful and then everything else comes with it. If you want something meaningful it’s not going to be meaningful without fighting for it.

Aaron Anthony Avilez220d ago

Do not conform to the way of the world. I regret not waiting and still think about it. Who cares what people think and also it’s none of their business. For me each person I had slept with it felt like a piece of me was taken. Like a part of my soul was left behind with them. Let God and His word influence your mind not the world. I’m telling you right now it’s not worth it to give in. May God give you the eyes to see things for what they really are and to give you wisdom to understand His path for you.

Michael Louis220d ago

You aren’t missing out man, there is power in the blood of virgin be u a man or a woman, many of us had lost that power I don’t wish that for you. Keep yourself bro. It is better not to start wat one cannot finish

Humaid 220d ago

Just as Michael said.. you really aren’t missing out man. I wish I could take it all back and become a virgin… you’re one strong dude. Keep it up.

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