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Addicted to Porn in a Relationship

Day 7
by Charles
896 upvotes

I’ve been struggling a lot recently with how to feel about watching Porn while in a Relationship. I love this girl. But I have had extreme urges to watch porn. When I have watch porn I haven’t even enjoyed and done the same thing I always did watching porn. At the start of my relationship, I noticed during Sex it has affected my ability to climax, and keep it up. Moving on a few months and watched one every 2 weeks, when I don’t watch it, everything is great😎 When I watch it, it ruins intimacy with my partner. It’s not just ruining my pleasure, but it’s also ruining hers. I’m trying my best for myself and for her. One day I will win. We have to.

Comments (3)
Mario 78d ago

Hey Charles, I’m on day 8, and I’ve already noticed a huge difference — intimacy with my partner has been 10 times better than before. I used to struggle with ED during sex, but now, just 8 days in, things have improved so much. Lately, whenever I feel the urge to watch porn, I remind myself of the opportunity I now have to fully connect with my partner — to focus on giving and enjoying that shared experience, rather than turning to porn and self-pleasure. It’s really shifted my mindset.

Charles78d ago

Jack, I see your point of view. But I’m not ready. I know that shows I’m not man enough. But it’s something I need to have under control until I have the convocation.

Jack78d ago

Only once every two weeks is amazing! If your partner knows about your addiction I hope she’s supportive in your journey, and if she doesn’t know, I suggest coming clean so she can help.

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