My ex and I broke up because the lust was an issue in our relationship. But it was mostly an issue for me. I treated her differently when we stopped having sex because she wanted to wait till marriage. I wanna be better for my future wife. What about y’all?
For me it was losing my virginity with a girl I barely knew and being thoroughly disappointed in what sex felt like, which then triggered porn induced erectile dysfunction. It made me realise multiple things, one of which was that I have a huge porn problem, the other is that I need to feel much more connected to my partner than I felt with her (it was a friends with benefits situation). I'm glad it happened as it made me realise my problem with a girl I didn't care about instead of with a potential love interest, but it has been a looooong journey full of relapses, slowly getting better and more motivated to fully stop. Every relapse felt less satisfying than the last, now I finally feel like I'm at a point where I'm going to be able to completely leave it behind me. Don't let a relapse discourage you, it will get easier.
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Great question, that’s rough how porn can ruin relationships like that, prayers for you. But why I got this app honestly I was just done. Done with the cycle of regret so I got this app to hopefully disrupt that.