I need to be occupied.

Day 0

by Callum Bicknell

February 9, 2025 at 02:41 AM

35 upvotes

I need to be occupied, every time I’m alone and bored it’s just ooh let’s have a little look, which then turns into more. Then I end up back here. I’m done restarting. If I fail again. I will be donating £20 to charity. Then if I do fail again, I will up it by £10. I know I won’t fail now. I’m done being in this cycle. I will be working on certifications and projects all to stay busy. If I’m ever home alone and bored I will walk my dogs. Anything to not be alone in the house at this point. A bit of a spew but I am ready to finally change.

Comments (2)

Z•191d ago

They say, ‘idle hands are the devils playground’. As men we desire to be needed and functional. Something I’ve been trying to is to do things for others. Call a good friend you haven’t spoken to in a while, get involved with a church organization, find a weird hobby to obsess over. If all of that fails, pray deeply and intently for the Lord to take your lust away. You’ll find peace

Chadd•191d ago

I can relate to that, struggling with this has debilitated my use of “free time” all my life. And now I just want to discover who I am without it. I want to truly embrace the feeling of discipline and the gratification of achieving long term goals without investing any energy into this thing I’ve allowed to eat into so much of my time and energy. We got this, we’ll take it day by day and teach ourselves to love the process

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