Love struck

Day 3

by K’alaagáa lihlangaa

June 16, 2025 at 07:25 PM

6 upvotes

I’ve known this amazing person for many years. We dated in high school for a while but after a misunderstanding we broke up after a year I wanted a relationship where we could be together more often she said she can’t trust me like that yet as she is only just getting over the past altercation we had. Now I’m just kinda confused as what I’m going to do long distance isn’t going to work as I’m leaving for a year and she is staying in town for college. Even though she said she couldn’t I feel that I can hold onto this strong rope between us it’s going to need some distance for the time. What do I do

Comments (4)

K’alaagáa lihlangaa•63d ago

Thanks this helps lots with the idea of things

John•63d ago

If she doesn’t want to pursue anything, I wouldn’t hold onto that rope anymore because it’ll hurt the both of you. And if it’s because timing isn’t right for her, don’t wait. You have a life to live and so does she. But if it’s none of those things lmk.

Sam•63d ago

I have been in a similar situation in the past. In the present moment it’s very hard to imagine not being with them. But looking back I wish I would have let go of her sooner. The hard truth is that more likely than not she isn’t the woman you will end up with. Let her go and focus on yourself and in a year’s time you will have become a better version of yourself and have so many amazing woman wanting to date you.

K’alaagáa lihlangaa•63d ago

Who else is going through this?

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