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Day 2

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by George
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It’s very intense. It’s getting very hot outside and sundress season is out and this thing is so hard. I’m tempted everytime I look at a woman, 24/7. I deleted all socials and dating apps so should be better. I’m frustrated and feel empty, it’s extremely intense. I will try to surround myself, not stay lonely or bored, not look at girls, and not go out much. The worst thing for me is subtle tentions, even if you remove them, you try to get small shots of dopamine through calling a cute girl, looking at picture on a dating app, looking at the girl at work. Which means, the MIND needs to be worked on the most, more than the environment. I’m remembering why I’m on this journey and the amount of supportive people in this app that are going through the same struggle. Also the fact that you have streaks, makes me competitive so I want to have the highest number. I feel I can talk freely and be understood here. Good luck to you guys.

Comments (2)
John Hagala125d ago

What Ben said^ When you see a woman, remind yourself she’s a child of God, she has value beyond her looks. Every woman is a soul which has beauty beyond the cosmos. If need be, practice looking away from specific instances, such as a girl dressed immodestly. Sundresses are a pleasant expression of beauty but tend to be modest, but if you find you can’t stop thinking carnal thoughts, then its time to look away and reflect on your thoughts. Remind yourself of the inner beauty that outlasts the outer beauty

Benjamin125d ago

You got this bro. Don’t be scared of women - you’re only going to sabotage yourself. When you’re tempted to look at one with lust, take that as an opportunity to see her as a HUMAN BEING. She has shit she’s dealing with just like you, and trying to always avert your eyes will lead to less connection and more isolation. I believe in you man. You got this.

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