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Need advice

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by Den Danske Bass
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If you are in the same situation as me. Please leave advice below, I would really appreciate that. So I relapsed again today unfortunately… I think one of my triggers is this girl I’m in kind of love with, but she is also my best friend (we are not together as partners) We send mixed signals to each other and of course if it feels like she doesn’t like me and love me, I overthink and then… relapse. So my question to you in the same situation: How do you manage this, what is your strategy and what do you do if you feel your on the edge of relapsing? - L

Comments (2)
Riley134d ago

Hey I was having the same problem I’m just taking breaks of my phone and spending more time with my family and friends. Do something that you enjoy like a hobby or go gym play football etc, I’m 1 day in but It’s hard when you see images you like and it’s so tempting but you gotta control your self. I believe you and try find another girl or don’t find a girl and focus on your self first so you have a good impression on the next one

Jacob134d ago

I’ve actually had this problem awhile ago man. I know it’s the hardest thing to do but you just gotta have that conversation with her man, tell her how you feel. I know it’ll hurt if rejection comes but you can’t keep yourself in this cycle of confusion. Plus it doesn’t help any potential relationship as you wait, she could find someone else in that time. Another thing I would say is to not masturbate to her. I’m not saying you do but I’ve done that before with crushes and it’s just not healthy. It leads to these fantasies and drifts you away from reality, making you think there’s signs there that really aren’t. I think you should put your focus on getting better so you can try to have the best outcome. No matter what happens, you have a community here to help so don’t worry man, you got this. Open the app when you got urges, and use the porn blocker!

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