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Day 3
by Layne Mastin
140 upvotes

I’m in a cycle mentally. I feel very lonely and miss having a gf, but I’ve told myself that since this ruined the last relationship I won’t try till I can defeat it and give that person 100% of me. But these nights with no one wanting me really tests my will. Bc in the past porn is what I would use to feel good. I just feel at war mentally bc I want someone, but they don’t deserve this part of me, but I want to feel good. But, I’m 3 days strong, I will be the man I want to be.

Comments (5)
Anonymous•216d ago

Every man has to feel lonely to become the man he is destined to be. So embrace the loneliness. Just know there’s going to be more good days instead of bad. And the girls will come in many numbers once you be come that man you destined to be bc you know how to be comfortable with your loneliness. Go pick up a hobby man to replace that good feeling.

Anonymous•216d ago

First of all if a woman leaves you because you have a porn addiction, instead of being understanding and praying for you, hoping for the best for you, she didn’t love you to begin with. Sorry to say, but you need to hear it. It’s very similar to if you lost everything overnight and your woman left you, that means she didn’t believe in you. You think no one wants you because you feel bad, but that’s just your brain tricking you. Porn is a big contributing factor to that. If you can gain control over your life and stop porn, you will realize that you are the man, and in fact reality is much different than how you feel. You will reach the point where you will be able to pull a majority of women, and you will not value women as much because you won’t be lusting after them like you did when you were watching porn. If a woman leaves you once you’re off porn, you will recover rather quickly and not give two sh*ts a week after the fact. Why? Because women will flock to you, and there will always be women on the sidelines ready for their chance with you. Good luck brother; and just a heads up you are two days ahead of me, so you’re already doing better than me. I wish the best for you and hope you come out of this on top.

Mhd Ayoub Chikhani•216d ago

Do you play Minecraft? Let’s play Minecraft together

S•216d ago

Gotta fight demons to become great. If it was easy everyone would do it. Imagine what you’ll be when you overcome this and imagine the quality of girl you’ll pull then.

Josh •216d ago

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