Guys I got a gf and has a made a big impact on me. Ever since meeting her I haven’t been on porn which I’m really proud of myself. Would it be a good idea to open up my struggles to her even though ive been on a good run or share till im fully ready to tell her?
Don’t tell her, she will use it against you.
Don’t tell her at all
I told my gf after several months of being together. It brought us closer together and gave her a better understanding of me. I still struggle with this, but telling her and being open with her and my best friend has definitely made things easier. Porn feels like it has less power over me when it’s not a big secret I have to keep from the people I’m closest with
She’s there to help you, even if it may upset her too, she wants to know and she wants to help you. Hiding it only makes it miles worse, and will ruin your relationship.
Do not hide it
Be honest with her every time you relapse
Bro do not tell her shit, don’t listen to anyone else. THESE HOES AINT LOYAL
Dont tell her if y’all just started dating
Absolutely not. This is your burden to bear, not hers.
DO NOT TELL HER, this is about you doing disgusting things before her. Same thing happened to me. I went a month with no urges whatsoever. It was sooo great and all bc of her. I messed up right after we broke up.
The truth eventually comes out. Best to get it out the way early to see if she can handle it. If she can, keeper. If not, then at least you don’t waste time. The aim is to find a wife ❤️
nah bro she don’t need shii to hold against you. honestly, she wants the most masculine version of you and telling her won’t help dat and won’t hurt if you don’t tell her
Too early to tell her bro
you should definitely tell her, but don’t open up about it so nonchalantly since this is a pretty vulnerable subject that you’re opening up about. another thing, be sure to set boundaries if you haven’t already. you can easily fall into lust if you’re not careful, even if it’s with a girlfriend. only do the deed if she’s got the rock on her finger
Yes tell her..
100% depends on the timing and how much it ruined your life.
No, this is your battle. At least get some time under your belt before you release that info.
So yeah tell her so she can be your accountability partner
Tell her she can be your accountability partner and basically realistically porn is a form of cheating
Yes in person
Think theres no reason to bring up stay locked in u going strong enjoy the relationship yall got
I don’t think you should tell a woman your problems especially if they haven’t gone through it.
Yeah I wouldn’t listen to anyone who says to tell your girlfriend about it. Yu js askin to be beat down mentally
Bad idea. I told mine and she was helping me thru it and then she broke up because of me relapsing a couple times. And the whole break up ruined me but I found God thru it so it’s still a W lol.
I just started here today and got a girlfriend about a month ago i told her immediately because I don't want to hold information like that back
I just started here today and got a girlfriend about a month ago i told her immediately because I don't want to hold information like that back
I concur with Hen
No. Just make sure somehow that she doesn’t watch it.
No dont speak about it. If you really want to, you should still wait a while until your addiction is truly gone.
No don’t tell her
did yall just start dating
Dont tell her until you guys get super close tryst
Personally i’d keep it quiet indefinitely if u can
No
Tell her in person. More genuine, easier to communicate your struggles, and it’ll mean a lot to her that you’re opening up to her.
yeah definitely in person
What you guys think?
In person is the best idea to tell?
I shared with my gf and being open about it takes a huge weight off of your shoulders
you should tell her
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I would tell her but I would wait around 6months to a year. Your still working on yourself and it seems to be going week so far! Personally if you e only been dating for so short might be a very personal thing to bring up