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Day 3
by Matthew
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Yo guys I just want insight, does it count to like have sex or do stuff with your gf? Like I wanna be no fap clean but sometimes she wants to do stuff and it’s not fair to not give her what she wants but at the same time I’m not sure if I am breaking my streaks by doing that? It’s also a problem bc if I tell her I’m doing a no porn detox she’s probably gonna feel insecure since I watched porn in our relationship. Do you guys think I can still rewire my brains dopamine receptors by quitting fapping and porn but doing stuff w my gf?

Comments (11)
Narcisse157d ago

Enjoy with your girl that’s the purpose

Diarmuid158d ago

The above comment about porn and its affects on the neural pathways is 100% correct.

Anonymous158d ago

having sex with your partner and jerking off to pixels is not the same thing. the reason porn is so bad is because it tricks your brain into thinking your mating with 100s of partners a week which creates neural pathways making you addicted to the rush of “having sex” with that many partners. as long as your girlfriend isn’t asking you to watch porn with her your totally fine. porn is the problem, sex and the occasional fap (just using your imagination) is not.

Tee158d ago

My experience bro. Having sec actually help recover the brain faster because it’ll help you appreciate real sex vs virtual sex. The goal is to rewire your brain from porn and masturbation.

Matthew158d ago

And yeah Tyler I am

Matthew158d ago

Thank u fr

Matthew158d ago

That’s what I was thinking yall

Tyler158d ago

Are you a follower of Christ?

Evan158d ago

Doing stuff with your gf would help your brain rewire faster provided your abstaining from porn, it’ll help deepen connections in the brain to do with sex but I also recommend just sex

OG158d ago

I’m not an expert, but I believe doing stuff with someone you feel connected to and have a relationship with is completely different. In that sense it’s healthy/natural. So TO ME, it seems perfectly fine.

Alex G158d ago

Bro stay off porn and do it with your girl. Don’t tell your girl until you’re fully detoxed from porn. This is a porn addiction recovery app not natural sex. That’s what you want natural sex and get used to that and not people on screens. I think you should be fine just no porn.

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