Advice??

I try in those moments to recognize and accept the feeling, acknowledge the fact that I will not try to fulfill it in the same broken way, and remember that it can and will be fulfilled when it is meant to :)

we watch porn both for self-centered pleasure, but also in some way to enjoy the pleasure we expect of the people in those videos/pictures. even as masturbation is self-pleasuring, deep down there is a broken part of us wanting to be pleasured...loved by another....and it's scary to feel that emptiness and aloneness...but it can't fulfill that longing or need

we use ourselves when we fall in PMO, but sex isn't meant to be a solo experience

when you can accept that our sexual drive is good and natural, but that it does not need to be fulfilled every time it is felt, that's when you can focus on life, and that "horniness" as a part to be expressed in gift, not use