Advice?

Day 7

by Zachary

May 28, 2025 at 11:04 PM

0 upvotes

I’ve been with my girlfriend for over 3 years. She is the one. Yet I feel like my addiction to porn has caused me to compare physical attributes. I know porn alters this brain chemistry, we’ve all be told that. Granted, I’m only like a week in. Has anyone noticed better relationships with their significant others since quitting porn?Temptations are still very heavy. In every way she is the one but I have to get out of this physical comparison mindset. Any success stories?

Comments (5)

Tyler•72d ago

Porn distorts people’s view of sex and intimacy. If you wish to have a successful relationship with the girl who you say is the one, quitting porn is essential. There is a reason why divorce rates increase drastically in marriages where porn is a present issue.

You•72d ago

I'm in a similar situation, it's ruining my relationship. I am happy that there are other people who understand what it's like

George•72d ago

when I separate myself from thoughts of porn or any other woman, I feel so much less guilty and more confident. This directly improves my relationship.

Zach•72d ago

Appreciate your feedback!

Daniel•72d ago

So for me it was never comparing but slowly starting to notice that she needs more intimacy rather than sex. Now wife puts out a lot, but man it healing and restoring our sexual side. She the only woman I focus on. Not some Of model! I’ve gone through period of focusing on her, not the list of Porn. This app helps keep track of what I need to focus on.

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