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I relapsed so many times in the last days

Day 2
by Paul
56 upvotes

In the last two days I have jerked off at least four times to different types of porn etc. My brain has been so jumbled I don’t know if I am actually attracted to men or if the porn has corrupted my mind so much that I like men. I only in real life been attracted to women so why when I watch porn do I try watching guys. I need help but I don’t know what or how?

Comments (3)
Winston112d ago

As someone who goes through the same problem, I get it. When I don’t watch porn I notice that my attraction is definitely related to it. It’s easy to be attracted to virtual things because they are easy to come by and no one has to know. But we have to keep them at virtual. What you’re attracted to is not a virtual thing. Once I took a few days away from porn I started to separate the two. It’s okay man. Take a deep breathe. Watching gay porn does not make you gay.

Alfredo112d ago

Well bro sometimes watching porn that involves more men in it can stimulate a response that feels we are those men. You aren’t gay - that’s literally what porn is designed to do. Stay away from that junk bro

Jeff112d ago

Well it depends on your situation, are you afraid of women rejecting you? That doesn’t mean you’re attracted to men, porn definitely gives us a lack of human interaction (not sexual) but it’s easy to hide like a hermit and watch porn because it will never reject you. If you’re in the mindset that you just don’t have much luck with girls it’s very easy to swing the other direction. Still doesn’t mean you are attracted to men. But if you have better connections with men. Porn can make you believe you might be homosexual. But if you have been attracted to women your whole life then it’s just porn disrupting your brain and fight it off. We all want intimacy so it’s easy to believe one thing when your actually the other because porn is a lie

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