a question 😅

what i’m mainly trying to accomplish is no porn, my boyfriend and i are currently long distance

Id say no this is mostly for quitting porn/masturbation. Sex is not the same. If you are looking at this from a religious angle yeah it’s still sin but I think it depends on what you are trying to accomplish.

I would say no personally but it’s about your personal boundaries. Is that your loophole or is it healthy expression, be honest

if anything just do the real thing