Don’t settle for just “real sex”
The problem isn’t porn. Porn is the symptom of the problem. The true problem is lust and our fleshly desires to have sex. Sex is a beautiful wonderful thing between to people who are deeply in love but the love is what is important when lust is present love is not. So do not be tempted to just quit porn so you can have sex with random women that’ll only lead you to the same problems you are trying to fight now. Embrace completeness within yourself and find that wholeness from God. When you understand the amazing love that is God then sex with a woman you marry will be infinitely more meaningful because lust scorns true intimacy. Intimacy that transcends sex and physicality. Chose love chose God
This is solid advice. Don't switch from one vice to another, lean on Christ not your bodily desires.