Can’t stop relapsing

Y’all are awesome. Thanks so much this helped me a lot!

This stuff takes time. I’m not out of the woods yet, but, remember that each time you feel the urge to relapse is an opportunity to say no and choose to be a better version of yourself. The first few days are the hardest and then it just comes in waves after that. Those waves do get smaller though and the more you commit to being a better version of you, the easier it will be. Have faith in yourself, but when you can’t have faith in yourself, have faith in God. Always have faith in God because he will never abandon you.

If you don’t want to quit you never will. Being “tired” of it. Or only feeling like quitting when you feel like nothing, won’t help you quit. You have to hate the way it makes you feel, you have to hate the loss, the loss of opportunity, the loss of women you could connect with, the loss of who you could be if you quit. This app helps you quit but it won’t force you to. If you still kinda like it then you’ll never quit. I hated the way porn made me, always looking for sex, or something erotic in life. It’s perverted, lame, weak, pathetic, and disgusting. I hated releasing my seed into my own hands, my clothes, tissue, or my bed sheets. It’s like rolling in my own filth, and still expecting a woman to love and value me when I can’t even gain control over myself or my mind. Knowing you watch porn is guilt and shameful in itself, no one who watches porn wants to be known or caught because it’s a disgusting act. Getting off to a man having intercourse with a woman that you won’t even talk to is lame and embarrassing. Or typing in whatever fetish you may have, you wouldn’t want the world to know because they’ll laugh at you and all the women will look at you as a predatory threat because you can’t keep your hands off of yourself or you eyes off of porn. You have to hate it deeply, hate what you’re missing out on, hate how you have been manipulated by society into doing something thats “normal” what’s even worse is that God is watching and no matter what door you lock, where you confide yourself, or what blanket you lie under, God is watching and he is displeased with the intense love and infatuation you have with pleasing yourself to a screen, a woman who can’t and isn’t pleasing you personally.

Aye bro just continue to try, never give up. I’m been on this journey for 2 years now trying to stop and when I first said I was going to stop I relapsed immediately but over time I got better I went from not going a day without it to now I do it like once a week and hopefully now that I’m in this I’m done with it forever so all I’m saying is just stick with it bro as long as u never give up and continue to try ur goin to get there also continue to trust God he’s got us

““The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭9‬:‭10‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ You have to face a holy god when you die, 150,000 people die everyday leaving school, plane crash, poison, heart attack, anything. Have you ever lied, stolen, looked with lust, used his name in vain? He is going to judge you according to all your sins even the secret sins you struggle with. The moment you die you pass from this earth which revolves around time, Into eternity. And if he judged you based off those Ten Commandments where would you spend eternity heaven or hell? But God Gave you hope and a second chance, “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ We broke gods law, Jesus paid our fine. And saved us from eternal suffering, Hell - here’s how the Bible puts it. “And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire— where ‘Their worm does not die And the fire is not quenched.’” ‭‭Mark‬ ‭9‬:‭47‬-‭48‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ In order to partake in this free gift from god you have to repent and trust in Jesus like you trust a parachute. If you were to jump out of a plane 15000 feet off the ground and flapped your wings to try and save yourself, you would be crazy! Jesus paid your fine and if you get right with god say sorry for your sins and truly mean it and ask him to reveal himself to you he surely will. Where you won’t be a slave to your sin such as pornography and you’ll love not what makes you feel good but what is righteous. God bless you, get right with god today.

Same bro, hopefully someone who’s succeeding can give some words of wisdom