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I need help

Day 0
by Anthony
28 upvotes

I relapsed after 4 days I just started and I have a gf which makes things worse I told her abt it almost a year ago and she was supporting me and was loving and was there we’ve been off and in but we have gotten back together and have stayed committed this time but I told her abt the app and she kinda got upset bc I had this addiction I never really mentioned it after I told her and it’s been rough she almost left me today but I begged her to stay and I had to educate her a little bit on the addiction and how it’s not something I can just stop I’ve been addicted since I was 13 I’m trying so hard any advice?

Comments (4)
ryan•76d ago

Sounds like a good conversation with your girl, a hard conversation, is something that needs to happen

Anthony•76d ago

I feel like I can make it a long time tbh I’ve gone months without it but idk recently I’ve been struggling with it when she’s I. My life I have better control and she has started to understand the more we talk but I didn’t necessarily try to hide it she just thinks when I told her I didn’t have a problem with it bc I ever mentioned it but I never mentioned it bc I was terrified to even tell her in the first place so there was no way I would’ve just openly said hey I’m abt to lust yk?

Thomas •76d ago

I’m in the same boat in terms of days man. Got through day 4, but not to day 5. Be patient with yourself, and pray/fast if you are a religious person. We can do this!

TF•76d ago

Your gf might feel betrayed bc u tried to hide it from her. You have to be brutally honest with her and tell her exactly how u feel. If she doesnt understand you even when you explain your intentions, she might never get it

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