3 day of actually being porn free, my gf found out bout my porn viewing and it’s been detrimental to our relationship. Today she pushed me off of her and it hurt me. I’m not being unempathetic i know she hurting as well but im doing my best for us and yet i see no progress on the other end or maybe im just impatient. All I can do is put my faith in God that he will restore what I have damaged.
What’s important is that your willing to make a change, I understand she’s upset with you and she has every right to be, imagine she was addicted to porn and getting aroused by other men. It’s always good to look at it through a different perspective. You should explain to her that you’re on this app and your actively trying to get better, you may not get support right away but you shout atleast let her know your trying.
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Everything will be ok man it takes actively being accountable coming to her and letting you know that this is a real issue for you and that you want her help with not only healing yourself but also with healing the relationship you need to put it the work to rebuild her trust and its not easy its gonna be hard its gonna take a long time but if she isnt giving up on you dont give up on her she is hurt and wether you know it now or not you are hurt by yourself also you dont want to lose her try to lay it out a plan of action for her of not only how you are going to change but how you will help rebuild trust as long as you stick to your streak everything will be ok you cant change the past but you can learn from it and use the lessons of the past to heal the future