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Day 0
by Isaac
64 upvotes

I keep falling into PMO, I’m also struggling staying pure with my fiancée. I feel like I’m in a vicious cycle that I feel trapped in. I’m not sure what to do

Comments (6)
Isaac52d ago

Kyle, it’s true. I’m just trying to cut it out completely

Isaac52d ago

Thank you Luis, I definitely will. I appreciate the prayers

Isaac52d ago

Wow thanks Gerson, that message seriously touched my heart. How can I reach out to you?

Kyle52d ago

Hey man, let me tell you something, I want you to think about when you were a kid and wanting true love, I’m young and wish for a girl, that’s great that you guys are going good, make sure to think about her alot and p will leave your mind, also if you need help jerk@&& you can always do it without p

Luis Pablo Cruz52d ago

“for though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭24‬:‭16‬ NIV I’ll be praying for you brother cast your burdens and your anxieties into Gods hands and trust in the Lord to help purify your heart on this journey.

Gerson 52d ago

Hey Isaac, thanks for being real, brother. That kind of honesty shows you’re not numb, you’re still fighting. And that’s huge. I know how heavy it can feel to be stuck in that cycle with PMO and in the tension of wanting to honor God with your relationship but falling short. First off, you’re not alone. And you’re not beyond hope. You’re in the middle of a battle that so many of us are fighting. But you don’t have to stay trapped. Freedom is possible, step by step, through grace and intentional action. Here are a few things that helped me and might help you too: 1. Re-center on truth daily: Start your morning with God’s Word before anything else. Speak truth over your identity (you’re not defined by your past, but by who God says you are). 2. Create distance from temptation: Set serious boundaries. Don’t be alone in private spaces with your fiancée, especially when you’re emotionally or physically vulnerable. It’s not weakness, it’s wisdom. 3. Use accountability intentionally . Don’t just confess after a fall, check in before you’re tempted. Get a brother or use other tools or even do daily text check-ins with a friend. 4. Redirect your energy: Lust is a distortion of a God-given desire. Channel that energy into working out, cold showers, journaling, creative projects, etc. Move your body, don’t sit in the fog. 5. Pray raw prayers : God can handle your honesty. Say, “God, I’m tired of this cycle. Help me hate sin the way You do. Fill the space I keep trying to fill with the wrong things.” And remember this from Galatians 5:1 “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” You are not alone, brother . This fight is real, but so is your future freedom. God’s not disappointed in your struggle. He’s calling you into something deeper. Keep reaching out. You’re not meant to fight this alone. Let’s walk in freedom together. 💪🏽🔥 Feel free to reach out if you want to talk more. I got you.

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