what’s the goal boys
Day 0
by rick three
2 upvotes
i have gooned once again, and it still felt good. but now i’m back to using it to cope wit my crippling feelings of loneliness and ambition. this is lowk what i sought to eradicate from my being. i miss my shorty, yall, i want her to come back to me, but i pushed her away thinking i knew myself and what i wanted out of somebody, ignoring the good qualities i already had in front of me. i always think i know something, boys, and then i always find out too late that i didn’t know anything at all.
Man I have been there. There was a girl I had, and she basically was a 10/10. But I broke up with her. Why? I don’t really know, I just lost the feelings for her. Sometimes we men do things we can’t explain and then we start missing our exes. But we have a tendency of thinking of the “good times”, because it is comfortable. But we gotta realise that there were a good reason for the break up and that there were bad times. Once you start realising this, it might get easier through time and this way of thinking of getting over her. Your loneliness is temporary, it will suddenly disappear. It requires time though. And also convince yourself that you’re time is precious. When your start doing things that is good for you, the loneliness will slowly fade away. Start small. Just with one habit, and just use 2 minutes on that habit. Then build up slowly. But remember that loneliness is a real feeling. Maybe you should text a friend if they want to meet up and have a chat. That is the best cure of loneliness. It is to know that people want to spend time with you. Hope this advice helps. Go out and put the hard work fella.