Happy ending

Nope brother, it’s cheating. Don’t lie to yourself, you already know answer

I didn’t do it, I’m just wondering. My cousins say why do you care if you choke it once in a while, but I do care.

I’d say yes. In no sense is that a value judgement and one might not, for example, think of a consensual one night hook up the same way…but this suggests seeking sexual gratification in ways very similar to porn. For me at least, it’s those kinds of things I’m trying to avoid