Should I restart?

You’re doing what God intended of course you don’t reset. You only reset when you do the things God did not create you to do

Considering she’s your wife, you’re married and there’s covenant, then you’re good bro. I would say you need to reset the counter when you masturbate and/or watch porn. Sex within marriage to your spouse is a gift from God and should be celebrated.

No, only reset if you thought about porn before, during or after

I should add that I didn’t have any post nut clarity or any bad feelings about it that i would get from jerking it to porn