To be quite frank I passed No Nut November in 2024, and it was easy but then I failed about 45 days in. Then, I realized I wasn’t addicted to porn; I just did it because it felt good and I liked looking at nude women. I’ve had girlfriends in the past, but none currently. My sister had never had a boyfriend until now (she’s 17 I’m 20), and for that reason, I felt a huge urge to never do it again. Why would I be over here pleasing myself while she’s with her boyfriend, especially at my age? That was the motivation I needed, and I have never relapsed since (7 days) no matter the urge, because I refuse to be shamed by her situation. I have thought about nude women in my head and even considered it since it felt good but as soon as I think about my sister’s situation, my mind overcomes it easily. It’s very possible for me because I’m very competitive, and I don’t like losing. So as long as she has a boyfriend, I’ll be fine. 😂 The reason I say this is because to anyone who doesn’t like losing to their siblings and their siblings have a gf/bf and your relapsing you’re losing and they are winning big time. Hopefully the mindset helps some people out since it’s worked on me great and have had no urges yet.