having a wank without porn

Yeah that’s true, in my imagination I try to imagine previous real life experiences I have had, occasionally a porno scene would appear but I try to push it away as quickly as I can, I think over time with the absence of porn it will get better and those thoughts will never come again.

I've been thinking a lot about this. I think there are at least two different kinds of imagination wanks. There's the relatively wholesome kind where it's quite lovey dovey and you're imagining realistic sex, and then there's the kind where you're basically just replaying porn videos in your head. Obviously I think it's important to refrain from the latter

I’m going to try my best and have a strong mindset to stay clear of it 💪🏾

In my experience porn slowly (or quickly) creeps back in and I wind up where I started

Same thing but now I can wank it anytime that's the problem