Urges to cheat on gf

I know it’s a struggle but gotta agree with Ayo on this. If you really love her you’ll wait for marriage. You’re not entitled to have sex with her bro. She’s not your wife. As hard as it might be to hear, she’s the one in the right. Quitting porn is admirable, fornication is not.

Move on king

I agree with chance because women are unstable creatures and when you do things like clean, wash, cook, shit read to her, massage her feet, take her out randomly and watch how her body is going to be attracted to you again. Ayo is right to, don’t just let it be about sex because then she does look at you as a sex addict. When you start having that self control, man bro it’s almost impossible to wanna go back to being how you was. One day at a time my boy💪🏾

You should not be having sex either way bro, you might as well keep watching porn and fapping. You are running from one immorality to another. What she is trying to show you is that you have not mastered self-control. YOU NEED TO HAVE SELF CONTROL!!! Sex outside marriage is equally a sin, been with someone whose giving it to you outside wedlock is not helping with you gaining self-control

Thanks fellas

If its marriage he is seeking if its not going anywhere then yea break up but why go to counseling and spend money for a girlfriend? If yall get engaged definitely do it but for now I would say have a talk and if it goes sideways then you have your answer

Most divorced are due some something sex related like this. It will never be a successful relationship if this is a sticking point. My advice is to find some relationship counselling, because they will be the first to tell you how important it is. If that still doesn’t work then you have to break up. No other option.

No don't leave her because of sex especially if its only sex that you two are different with. If you see yourself actually being with this person for the long haul then its healthy to have these discussions together about how often is good to have sex through out the week and be realistic also be willing to have some give or take. Do things around the house or pick up flowers for her make her want to initiate sex often with you, don't let the trash pile out and dishes pile up or make her have to ask you to do things you know need to be done then at night wonder why she isn't in the mood for sex. Remember bro women are emotional creatures if you stimulate her emotionally she will likely start to want sex more than you.

The natural attraction is so much more intense without porn and she sees it as a problem rather than a compliment. SMH

Break up