So I matched with a chick on tinder and we met up and things got heavy and she started playing with herself then told me too which I did but things got cut short and neither of us finished lasted 30secs and then got interrupted so we stopped should I reset men because technically I did masturbate for a lil bit to her playing with herself
Imo as long as this was. In the frame of intimacy w another person you should reset bro- fapping with the gyat in front of you is v different to fappin in a frame solitude. Also having the gyal play w herself in front of you is sth you earned- it is not instant gratification. No need to reset
The way I think of “no fap” is no porn. If you’re naturally putting yourself in a position where that presents itself, fair game. Just don’t be cranking one at home lol, use the spark you felt to craft a real relationship
If you got perseverance to keep pornography away I guess it’s no big deal
It’s porn I’m stuck to it and and it’s been 27 days without but I also want to be in control of myself sexually and I don’t think I was, now I’m leaning more towards a reset I was hoping to get some clear re enforcement from you guys saying reset or just move on and next time keep my dick in my pants idk 🤷🏻
It depends on your goals bro, just think about why you are here, is it because of porn or the urge to masturbate all the time or something else
Idk if I’d say it’s a relapse since your not beating off to porn butt, your better off smashing girls then jerking off
I’m on the fence about it and feel as tho I should because I wasn’t maintaining celibacy but also feel like because it’s real maybe just move on and not reset but also stay strong and not indulge into any sexual acts going forth for a long while
Few different ways to look at this. I mean this was an experience with another human being. Tough call man
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