What is a relapse for yall
Is it that act of viewing porn? Or masturbating and watching porn? Or just masturbating? For me masturbating is not a relapse but anything porn is. Because masturbating doesn’t have all the negatives that porn does right?
As long as you do not fantasize while masturbating, but just focus on your body and your feelings, it's fine. I have however for the first time decided to stop masturbating too, as I feel I started using it for the same reasons I used porn. To manage stress and to get a quick hit of dopamine. This has led to me relapsing often, so now I won't masturbate anymore either.