Is it considered a relapse if I jerk off to my wives nude photos?

Tough. I mean they’re photos. It’s not hardcore video. I would try not to do it on a daily basis ofc

Hahaha depends on what your goals are. Personally I view sexual activity as a very important component to bodily vitality, so I would consider any unproductive sexual release as a relapse. Ofc that’s just my opinion. Maybe it’s ok if you don’t release? You should look into Karezza and similar practices