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Delusional or no

Day 8
by Damarco
141 upvotes

So this right(ofc it’s a girl) we don’t really talk at all I mean we see each other around campus but that’s really it but recently she’s started to look at me more like for example just lock eyes with me when we walk past each other or if I’m just walking past her she would look at me for a quick second then look away but it’s to frequent yk like every time she sees me now she looks me dead in my eyes. Like for example today I was sitting down eating I had seen her walk in but ig she didn’t see me and when she was in front of me getting sum to eat while I was sitting down behind her she just turned around and looked at me for like 2 secs then turned back around I think I’m just being delusional I went down this path multiple times and ended up being wrong the girl isn’t ugly she’s a solid 8 but she’s 4’11 which isn’t a bad thing yk I wanna talk to her but what if I’m wrong and what if she never even looked at me that way what if ut just so happened to be a coincidence

Comments (10)
Nikita137d ago

Just go and talk to her, you dont have to be weird and tell her that you like her and ask her if she likes you. Just introduce yourself, ask her name if you dont know. Have a chill conversation with her, break phisical contact by shaking hand or even better hugging if vibes are there, and by doing it a few times you two may become closer and go on dates. Or you will just feel from conversations that she was never interested, but you will understand it withoung feeling cringe or rejected. Good luck man👍

A137d ago

Brother, girls do weird stuff when you like them. We cannot understand them 100%. One day she might act like she is liking you, one day she might act like she does not like you. But all this time either she was liking you or not, no in between. What I would do is to ask for her name. Yes, she will definitely understand you like her. If she likes you, you can slowly build things up by learning her name (say your name to the girl also, dont get excited and leave after she tells her name). Say something like, I like your backpack, what is your name? If she loves you, she will say her name too and maybe more. If she does not like you, she might not give her name and ignore you (unlikely), or throughout time of this new friendship, she will make it clear. This approach is better than just saying I like you or taking your shot. Because if you take your shot and she feels the same way, congratulations, you just made the “asking her name first” approach go much faster. If she does not like you, instead of getting a hard rejection, you can look for clues of if she likes you when you first become friends with her. And brother, trust me you are not delusional, girls may act in ways we, boys, dont really understand.

Nate137d ago

Just start a conversation but keep it casual, try to become friends for a bit and see where it goes

Cris138d ago

All I can say is you never know until you try but, honestly rejection improves you has a man!!!

Sauce138d ago

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

Jonathan Muyola138d ago

For all you know she could be waiting for you to talk to her fr🤷🏾‍♂️

Jonathan Muyola138d ago

Shiii maybe, but you’ll never know if you don’t try

Damarco 138d ago

The last time they told me shoot my shot I did and it went horrible 😭

Jonathan Muyola138d ago

Talk to her bro. At least you’ll have a definitive answer instead of wondering everytime you see her. Which trust me is way worse than being wrong.

Meezy138d ago

Shoot yo shot bro no harm in it

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