I’ve Got a Question
So I’ve been porn free for 3 months now but I’ve struggled with masturbating still. I think giving up porn is easy for me but the struggle is the masturbation. I’m curious if anyone thinks the same.
So I’ve been porn free for 3 months now but I’ve struggled with masturbating still. I think giving up porn is easy for me but the struggle is the masturbation. I’m curious if anyone thinks the same.
stop masturbating as well, use those urges to find a gf, then just have sex
Get addicted to the testosterone fueled rage from not nutting instead and then go conquer a city or nation-state like our ancestors would have
I’ve had the same problem as you. Porn was never a problem for me but masturbation was daily and sometimes many times a day. I think the reason I decided to quit masturbating was because I realized I did it especially when I felt lonely, sad, stressed etc… I used it to deal with some of my emotions. And at some point it leads to watching porn. The first week is the toughest because you’ll just have urges all the time but you have to do other things. One thing I noticed is how much better I deal with my emotions ever since I stopped masturbating. I feel like I have less mood swings because I handle my emotions better.
Are you doing it to your imagination or pictures? I quit video porn a long time ago. I find it disgusting, but I filled that void with pictures and I would make an excuse that pictures wasn’t porn but it is.😔 masturbation is fine by itself but if it becomes an every day thing then it’s really bad
Hey bro, I’m the same I’ve been 88 days porn free but I’ve masturbated a few times in the 3 months because sometimes the urges have been too strong. I can completely relate. Despite the urges to watch porn comes, the longer I go, the easier I find to resist but what I have noticed is edging and occasional masturbation still doesn’t fulfil me and makes me think “this would be better with porn” which is why I agree with Eze, eventually the desire for porn comes back and then I start again. I went 92 days of no porn or masturbation and the week before “day 90” felt like unbearable, my sex drive was through the roof and I’m celibate aswell! So my mind was all over the place. I now know it was the devil trying to set me back and it worked but this time I decided that I’m going to conquer one first “porn” before the other “masturbation”which is why I’ve allowed a few times over the the last 3 months however I can feel the desire for porn coming back so I’ve got to just PRAY and STAY BUSY. But all in all, I can relate with you brother. If you can cut both out then please do. I feel like porn is now behind me but I don’t want to give myself grace for occasional masturbation even if it helps with my urges because I know it will bring the porn back. Hope this helps
One leads to another and both become habit. It’s better to let them both go. When you don’t do it you feel powerful when you masturbate the feeling after is dreadful and you regret it
Man don’t stop masturbating, if you don’t masturbate, your urges will be in your dreams and you ll jeez in your bed no joke, stopping masturbation is useless
Caesar gets it