Been chatting to this one girl for a year at this point and it’s going places. I have stopped watching porn completely, however would a relapse count if I did it during phone sex with her?
You could tell her abt this journey letting her know that you are currently abstaining from masturbation. Mostly depends on your situation and why you started. If you did this to get away from the desensitization of pornography then enjoying private intimacy with your partner is fine. If masturbation however has caused other issues in your personal life and you are benefiting from not masturbating (things like mental health, well being) then you should tell her and continue your journey.
Taking down the porn industry—one user at a time. Join 500,000+ people quitting for life with QUITTR, the #1 Science-based app to Quit Porn 👇
do your best to abstain and limit and youre not doing it outside of that or find yourself thinking lustfully more through out the day