Waves of Loneliness

Day 1

by SAB

January 30, 2025 at 02:01 AM

238 upvotes

Idk man It’s like sometimes I’m able to focus on what’s good and positive in my life, I really do have a lot to be fortunate for. But 60% of the time I’m hit with waves of loneliness and get into almost a depressive like mood for no reason. I think it stems from never having been in a real relationship and coping with this lack of connection with porn. I try my best to meditate, pray and focus on the positive but I just need some tips if y’all got any about battling these waves of loneliness and depression. I understand that getting a girlfriend won’t fully solve the problem, but it’s like my mind won’t let me accept that.

Comments (8)

SAB•201d ago

Thanks S, I appreciate the words of wisdom. Hope you the best through this journey

S•201d ago

Also a huge thing for me is to have hope and think of the future. I get myself out of dark mindset by thinking about the future and imagining what I want it to be. Then I remind myself this difficulty is the price I’m paying for that future.

S•201d ago

I’m honestly distracting myself by being active, and working on my side hustles. I spend free time at coffee shop or out of the house so I don’t get depressed. Being in bed is when things hit me. It’s natural to feel dissatisfied because in a way it’s a motivation to go after what you deserve. If I didn’t have these negative feelings then there wouldn’t be as much of a reason to make changes.

SAB•201d ago

S what’re some ways you deal with not having a partner? It feels like my mind doesn’t seem to understand that It’s not my time yet. Constantly putting me in a depressed mood because I lack that connection even though I tell myself it will come eventually.

S•201d ago

I’m at 34 days and the loneliness is insane I think bigger issues are surfacing and I’m fixing one thing at a time

Batman•201d ago

Have a bible grp too

Batman•201d ago

Wanna connect on insta?

SAB•201d ago

Just to preface, I’ve been porn free for a month and half now. Just restarted my counter because I masturbated without watching porn.

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