Getting My girlfriend back
Day 0
by Will
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I’m 22 years old and have been struggling with this addiction since high school but didn’t know it was an issue until recently. I can not please my girlfriend sexually and that is tearing us apart. She wants to go on a break while I leave for the summer and she hopes to try again when I go back to college from the summer but she says she doesn’t believe I can give her what she wants sexually. She has no idea about my issue and I am working to give her what she deserves but I’m worried she’s out the door already because of my issue. I am working on fixing my desensitization but I’m worried this won’t work. Anyone got any advice?
Tell her. Tell her what’s going on, that you’re trying to do better. Communication is one of the best and healthiest things you can do in a relationship. If she assumes that you can’t please her sexually, you need to ask her what she’d want you to, even if it’s awkward. If she’s worth it, you’ll do it.