Very proud of you all.

Listen I get some of you have relapsed but honestly the fact that you’re in this fight says a lot, it’s not easy to defeat lust i tell you. But most people here are right, it’s about keeping busy, but also I added something else. The true meaning of love,before Id see a women and Id start getting nasty thoughts but now im like, no that’s lust not love. Lust only wants temporary pleasure and destruction of relationships. I will not give lust what it wants, learning what TRUE love actually is and you start using it to love God and using it to pray for the safety of your future wife, eventually you cleanse this garbage and God will know you’re ready and she’ll come into your life. You CAN do this, the only one stopping you is your own nasty thoughts. Also the “it doesn’t even matter or I don’t really care what this guy says” feeling you feel and that tiny pull in your heart when you think about TRULY pulling away from that. If you do, I have two words That’s Lust.