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Is it a relapse

Day 19
by Kaelin
21 upvotes

Is it a relapse if I jack off to my partner while we’re are talking sexy over text

Comments (5)
JT72d ago

Ezra put it rather bluntly, but I agree with him. If you are asking the question, that means you feel some sort of guilt for doing it and are potentially looking for justification from others not to reset. Maybe I have it wrong and that’s not how you feel, but that is what it sounds like to me. Would you feel absolutely comfortable with your streak if you didn’t reset? I got to a 67 day streak once but it was filled with caveats. Yeah technically I didn’t watch porn, but I still actively pursued lustful actions and viewed things I shouldn’t have. I realized that keeping the streak going wasn’t helping me and I was only making excuses/justifications for myself which wasn’t going to help me grow

Amari Davis72d ago

I wouldn’t think so because it’s not porn but I’m not 100% sure. You are technically being stimulated by not something not in your presence but it is your girl tho

Ezra72d ago

Lustful = Relapse.. But go ahead and listen to, or have it justified by whoever you like, your journey is your journey.

Jayanth Sambaraju72d ago

No, it’s not porn or sexual content, it is dirty talk between you and your partner, that’s kinda the point

Monarch72d ago

I personally wouldn’t reset bc of this, it sounds healthy

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