Just failed after 17 days
Day 0
by nardo
42 upvotes
Been going strong for a while but I ended up having sex wit somebody & they turned on porn in the middle of it… which triggered me. Now I’m watching it but I haven’t touched myself. Idk what to do.. feel like I should keep watchin it now 😖🫣
Bro there’s levels to this. One of the levels is environment management. This is a more advanced level. It includes making sure that your surroundings and overall life setup are conducive to your goal. On this level, you are optimizing for setting yourself up for success in terms of the externalities. This is to say that if you got yourself in an environment where you slipped, this is a result of poor environment management. No excuses brother. You have all the power to build ‘that’ life. So you can’t blame anyone turning on porn. You were there, too, and could have or even should have steered the situation such that it makes sense in the context of your goals. It’s no excuse. The devil knows a multitude of ways to get you hooked. You need to fight the devil. This includes the fact that you have to identify the devil. Keep your eyes open. React like a leader. Cause that’s what you are. The leader of your life story. Watching porn as a result of that situation is no excuse. It’s a mistake. It’s wrong. But you can always correct your mistakes. Right you wrongs. It’s in you. You VS you. Don’t give in. Godspeed, brother.