I think it’s a relapse if it’s with someone random (cam girl, OF, or something else of that nature). If it’s with someone you’re in a actually intimate relationship it’s definitely not something to beat yourself up on

This depends on how far it goes imo and where your hearts at. If this is casual sexting while you’re masturbating, that’s in a grey area. If it’s with someone you’re committed to and it’s flirtatious teasing before enjoying each other later I think you’re okay. If it makes you feel bad or questioning though, I’d count it as a relapse.

@joshua how is real-life porn if porn itself is make believe ?

Yes it is a relapse you’re basically looking at porn… don’t let these two deceive you

No! Sexting you earn and put effort into getting them by interacting with another human.

I would say No, because I think it’s not since you’re not watching porn or looking at sexual pictures of women.